Getting able to go home and seeing that one sight as you get close to pulling into the main road of your hometown feels so good. It's so super easy to lose sight of why we do the things we do. You don't need to put "high expectations" on everything you do and your goals.
Embrace your life! Just do you!
Putting high expectations can just put yourself in the wrong headspace. Being in the wrong headspace can definitely put us out of whack. Once we get out of whack, our mood changes. And we all happens when our mood gets out of whack because we get cranky and no one wants to deal with us. So be aware of your mood and behaviors when the imbalance forms. Take a time out to deal with it, so people still want to be around you. Happy you will equal happy friends, family, and maybe a significant other.
Never lose sight of your goals and how you want to accomplish them. There are many ways to complete the accomplishments - find the ones that work for you.
You have the power to create and accomplish goals that you alone are craving. Feed that craving so you don't drive yourself bonkers. And once you feed that craving, you won't be hangry anymore.